One of the most valuable lessons I wish I had learned earlier in life is the importance of letting go of strangers’ opinions. For a long time, I allowed the judgments of people I barely knew or didn’t care about to occupy space in my mind. I let their opinions shape how I saw myself. But the moment I realized that these individuals held no meaningful place in my life, everything began to shift.
Their opinions lost their power. I stopped giving them permission to affect my mood, my confidence, or my choices. Life became noticeably lighter and less stressful when I understood that not every voice deserves an audience, especially those that come from people who don’t truly know me or contribute anything positive to my journey. Now, I protect my mental space fiercely, reserving it only for those whose presence and perspective genuinely matter.
Daily writing prompt
Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.
Tonight’s dinner? Stuffed peppers with cauliflower rice. Because apparently, I’ve decided to pre-pay my guilt before diving headfirst into the Dominican buffet. My husband and I are heading there for our anniversary, and I’d really prefer to fit into my vacation clothes without resorting to a beach towel toga. So its keto or Atkins, whichever one lets me pretend cauliflower is rice without sobbing into my sauté pan.
To be honest its just a temporary breakup with carbs. I fully intend to rekindle my passionate affair with their food plantains, pastries, and all. It’s not cheating if it’s international cuisine, right? It’s cultural immersion… with extra butter.
I stumbled onto the WordPress blog by accident like tripping over a hidden door in a library I didn’t know was there. I’m what you’d call a certified tech klutz. TikTok and Instagram? Tried them. Flopped spectacularly. It left me dazed, confused, and mildly humiliated. But the blog? That felt different. But finding the blog with its daily prompts felt like the universe gently nudging me toward something that actually fits.
Second, I’ve somehow attracted actual readers and subscribers to my website and books real people who like my blogs! Not just scrolling past, but actually engaging—commenting, subscribing. I’m still not sure how they found me (possibly witchcraft or a rogue algorithm), but I’m beyond grateful. Kind souls who connected with my words and stuck around. Their support means everything. It’s what keeps me writing the stories I love, the ones that live in the quiet corners of my imagination.
I am a Trekkie forever. The original Star Trek series will always be the best. A mythic trek masked as science fiction. Each character symbolizes a timeless archetype exploring the stars. Captain James T. Kirk stands as the Warrior-King, bold and instinctive, a modern Odysseus steering his ship through galactic trials. Mr. Spock is the Sage, the eternal Seeker of Truth, caught between two worlds like Hermes at the crossroads. Dr. Leonard “Bones” McCoy, cantankerous but deeply compassionate, channels Chiron’s wisdom and weariness, his gruff exterior shielding a compassionate heart.
Lieutenant Hikaru Sulu, the loyal Guardian, a samurai of the stars whose calm presence anchors the chaos. Lieutenant Nyota Uhura, the Oracle, speaks in frequencies that transcend language.Her voice a bridge between worlds, her presence a signal of change and possibility. Ensign Pavel Chekov, the Young Hero, carries the exuberance of Perseus, eager to prove himself, his optimism a shield against the shadows of history. Montgomery “Scotty” Scott is the Alchemist, with wrench and wit, he bends the laws of physics like Hephaestus forging miracles in the heart of the ship.
Together, they weren’t just a crew, they were a family, boldly going where no one had gone before, and inviting us to imagine a universe where diversity, curiosity, and courage were the guiding stars.
What I enjoy most about writing is the instant stories take shape on the page. The moment when scattered ideas transform into worlds. I’m captivated by the characters who emerge: each one distinct, layered, and full of surprises. I love exploring how they meet, clash, connect, and grow. How their relationships evolve through hardships, success and special moments. The obstacles they face aren’t just plot points; they’re reflections of strength and love in all its forms.
Paranormal elements add another dimension to that journey. Whether it’s a heroine loves the enemy, or a shapeshifter who loves a human, the supernatural allows me to explore emotional truths in heightened, symbolic ways. Myth and magic becomes a metaphor for healing, transformation, and the unseen forces that bind us. It lets me blur the line between lore and reality, weaving in cultural and spiritual depth that lingers long after the last page.
Diversity is at the heart of my storytelling. I’m drawn to characters from different backgrounds, cultures, and experiences, because their voices matter and their journeys deserve to be seen. Writing allows me to celebrate that richness, to challenge stereotypes, and to craft romances that feel both magical and deeply real.
I live in what feels like the driest state in North America. Maybe it’s not, technically but the sun scorches like it’s trying to prove a point. Yet beneath the dust and heat, my community blooms with cultural richness. You’ll find Navajo jewelry sold beside Mexican pan dulce, powwow drums echoing near quinceañera halls, and murals that blend desert mythology with urban grit. It’s not paradise there’s still bigotry, racism, and misogyny here. But in my small corner, I see love defying boundaries, writing inspiration especially in romance.
Desert Romancewith the golden sunsets, tense monsoons, and vast open skies. Small-Town trope often used in the romance genre. The quaint towns like Jerome and Bisbee. Sedona offers mysterious settings for paranormal or romantasy tales. Also, Sedona is famous for its “vortexes”, energy centers believed to enhance meditation and creativity make it a hotspot for mystical themes and magical realism. Arizona has some of the clearest skies in the country ideal for romantic stargazing scenes or magical rendezvous.
It is rich with Indigenous mythologies from Hopi, Navajo, and Apache cultures. The spirit beings, shape-shifters, and sacred landscapes is perfect for weaving into fantasy or paranormal plots.The Ancient Sites like Montezuma Castle and Canyon de Chelly is saturated in mystery and ancestral power, presenting real-world links for myth-inspired storytelling. The Grand Canyon, Antelope Canyon, and Horseshoe Bend are not just stunning, they’re virtually storyboard-ready.
Events like Día de los Muertos celebrations and powwows provide rich visual and emotional material for character outline and world-building. The desert can represent isolation, transformation, or resilience the ideal metaphors for character arcs. Creatures like coyotes, hawks, and snakes carry symbolic weight and can be woven into magical or mythic narratives. Monsoon storms, blooming desert wildflowers, and fiery sunsets pose dynamic settings for emotional turning points.
The blend of Hispanic, Indigenous, and Western traditions creates a rich tapestry for exploring identity, heritage, and cross-cultural romance. The Old West meets ancient civilizations is ideal for time travel romances, reincarnation themes, or ancestral quests. Adobe homes, mission churches, and petroglyphs add texture and authenticity to visual and written storytelling.
Reading is my go-to for peace. If I’m feeling stressed or just worn out, I’ll crack open a book and everything else kind of melts away. I get totally wrapped up in the story, like I’m living it myself. It doesn’t even matter what kind of romance book it is romantasy, paranormal, sci-fi, mystery, monster or mafia romance, whatever. As soon as I start reading, it’s like flipping a switch. My mind quiets down, and I get to step into someone else’s world for a while. It’s the best kind of escape, and honestly, sometimes it’s exactly what I need to reset.
In my universe, I’d still be married to the same wonderful man, and my kids would be just as they are, though my daughter might have a little less sass. Magic would be part of everyday life. I’d carry a wand for small enchantments, and my spell lab would be tucked into a cozy corner, filled with glowing vials, ancient books, and maybe a skull or two inhabited by a friendly spirit who offers advice and the occasional sarcastic remark. Life would shimmer with spells and secrets but the heart unchanged.
My neighbors would shift into wolves, tigers, birds, whales, and other creatures. One moment they’d be human, the next, fur or feathers would ripple across their skin. Some soared, some prowled, some vanished into the sea. Each form felt natural, like seasons changing. No one questioned it. Their transformations as ordinary as walking.
I hope my blog changes the narrative about romance writers. We’re not bored housewives or flashy debutantes with fake nails, we’re storytellers who believe in love, inner strength, and the worth of a Happily Ever After. Our heroines aren’t submissive, porcelain maidens from the 19th century. They’re fierce, smart, working women who take charge of their lives. They juggle careers, heartbreaks, slay their own dragons, and love with open hearts and iron wills. No rescue required, they’re absolutely kickass.
I write interracial paranormal romance and romantasy to celebrate love that defies boundaries—cultural, spiritual, and supernatural. Whether my couples are shifters, angels, goddesses, or humans, they find connection through universal truth. Because deep down, we all want to be loved for who we truly are. That’s the magic of romance. It offers connection, acceptance, and the promise of belonging.
Romance is a billion-dollar industry that thrives year after year. Yet is undervalued in literary circles. Romance is a genre that blends mystery, suspense, sci-fi, horror, comedy, fantasy, and more. We weave these genres into stories driven by emotion, connection, and heart. Romance covers all the bases and does it with style.
It’s time to recognize the depth, diversity, and creative range that romance delivers.
Quotes:
“Interracial romance novels are increasingly popular with readers drawn to love stories that transcend cultural and racial boundaries. This is reflected in reader demographics, with a significant percentage of romance readers identifying as Black/African American, Latino/Hispanic, and Asian/Asian American” Sweet Savage Flame.
“Love, relationships, and emotions, romantic or otherwise, are key to the human experience. Romance just treats that as the most important thing.” – Sarah MacLean
“Romance makes the promise that no matter how bleak things sometimes look, in the end everything will turn out right and true love will triumph — and in an uncertain world, that’s very comforting,” Leigh Michaels.
Daily writing prompt
What change, big or small, would you like your blog to make in the world?
The would be when my husband and I went to Las Vegas for our anniversary. We paid $35 each for a buffet at one of the casino’s restaurant. Was it worth it? No! The food was cold, under cooked and not seasoned. Needless to say we found other places to eat that wasn’t that expensive. We haven’t been back to Vegas since and don’t plan to go back in the coming years.
I remember the old Vegas where you could see a show for less than $1oo. The casino buffets were $10. Now since they redecorated it doesn’t have the same ambience as before. The essence that was once Las Vegas forever changes. Now it what can we charge you for a glass of water. So sad.
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Daily writing prompt
What’s the most money you’ve ever spent on a meal? Was it worth it?
Deloris Nash 